Mommy War and Whatnot

Being a parent is hellish difficult that I dont understand those who deliberately involve into mommy war(s). 

Don’t all parents want the same thing for their children? The parenting style might be different from one parent to another, but is that a valid reason to bash other parent’s style of parenting?

Heck, it is a new thing for all first timer (yes we tried our best nevertheless), and each child has their own characteristics and temper, then why would they think one parenting style would suit all children? 

Anyway, this is officially a rant about mommy war from my side, of course I always avoid the battlefield, and I dont see the reason why I shouldnt.